I wrote

Hi guys I have been reading this forum for some time I would like to share words out of my own point of view.

Women being selfish in the pursue of freedom is a worldwide fenomena espeacialy in western countries.

Before I go further I would like to say this first that:-

There is nothing more beautiful than a woman compared to all what God have created. Women makes even a beautiful garden with beautiful flower much more beautiful, women gives pleasant scent to the flowers in the garden, women makes man to feel and know what is love, for a man women is the reason why love born in this world. There is nothing in this world which makes a man really happy than woman of noble character as his wife, whom just by her present makes him to feel calm, peaceful, refreshed, strengthen and loved.

Women need someone who can protect her, look after her and someone who can meet her emotional needs, by having someone to give all this she would experience the feeling that she is cared and loved.

Man needs someone to be his companion, to follow him, to be there to support his decisions, someone who would be his ribcage, someone who he can love and whom need love, care & protection, above all someone who would be willing to be submissive to his leadership as man as leader of his family. Interestingly when a man found a woman of such noble character having her as his wife makes him to feel and gives him an ansurance that he is loved by her.

In these modern days many women are well educated, employed in high professions and they have developed a kind of sense that they can look after themselves.

When a woman of this sort of mentality gets married most of the time she won’t be submissive, which will some how damage the natural urge for leadership in the husband.

When this occurs most of the time the man feels like he is not loved, and when this situation prolonged, love the man had in his heart in his soul for the wife became decreased.

I’m not saying it will disappear totally but decreased, this of course not healthy for the family, many problems can occur because of this.

In this world everything needs order and balance like the Chinese understanding of Yin & Yang, if we look at nature everything God have created they are all in the form of balance, one stronger and the other weaker (softer), there are always some form of counterpart to make things balance in the nature, without balance and order will always end-up in natural disasters. In the family life is also the same.

I have heard women saying that this is a mans world, man control, man rules, always think low about woman and mistreat them, because of these reasons that many woman wants to be like man.

Men have their strength and weakness at the same time woman have their strength and weakness. Women have to realize the truth that being womanly is not a weakness.

Many modern days woman have interpreted that to carry on the traditional roll of a woman and being feminine is something weak.

What do I really mean by being womanly, what are the beautiful characteristic of being a woman, the strength of being a woman are gentleness, soft as beautiful flowers, calm & compost, decent, moderate, loveliness, angelic, high level of compassion, slow to anger but quick to calm an angry men with her soft touch, these are some of the strength that a woman have inside, but sadly nowadays their considered to be weakness and rarely practiced.

Woman should understand that these qualities are strength given by divine to women, woman can use them in very useful ways, if man has strength to become very angry, woman has the strength to calm him. If men have the strength to build the world for the betterment of mankind women have the strength to give him the positive courage be his backbone so he can do it.

But women can also misuse their strength for example to manipulate man with their gentleness, just like Delilah did to Samson in the bible, just like man can also misuse their strength in negative form.

Any men becomes attracted to women with feminine qualities, men becomes attracted to women who are physically attractive most of the time for physical fun but the woman with womanly qualities for life long spiritual union.

Any men with healthy brain will never think about hurting a woman, it’s when a woman behaves like a man then the woman might get beaten by man.

Let me elaborate something very common, when a man talk with another man aggressively about something and lets say their immature, their feelings are not controlled by knowledge, wisdom & understanding, when their ‘man ego’ becomes hurt they will end-up punching each other. When a woman behaves like a man makes a man angry and fuel –up his anger with foolish words he can became blinded by his anger and feel like he is talking to another men and he will end-up hitting the woman who was acting like a men.

So basically I think in opinion many women nowaday lack the spiritual understanding and knowledge witch of should have been sowed by their parents while their still at very young age.

Spiritual knowledge will pave the way for the girls to understand their wonderful role as a women in this world will also give them strentgh to live meaning full life.

Spirituality is such an important espect beacause it elevate humans from being an animal to be humans.
So women without spiritual knowledge = animals

Many women thinks nowaday that being able to do whatever they want for their own benefit is freedom,
what they don't understand is that their are victims and slaves of their own desire.

The unfortunate is that desires which are not controlled by spiritual wisdom, knowledge and understanding will always leads to self destruction. This is the reason why many Finnish man and women end-up being depressed, unstable, alcoholics, commits sucide and so on.

Guys I'm a Malaysian Indian married to a finnish women for the past 8 years. When we first meet she was pretty unstable as well. Whenever I felt something was not right I gave her advice from spritual aspect it was not easy but I started to see the fruits slowly, I took her to Malaysia and live there 7 years, in that 7 years time she was totally transformed, now she love the values of asian culture, she said to me that she feels like unfortunately she had born in a wrong culture. Now we are back in finland for a change and my wife she has this eagerness to do something for the finnish people who are in her point of view (lost).

Guys if you are looking for live long companion (wife) look for them in churches beacause normaly they are more stable than the gilrs who love disco's and pubs.

Someone replied

I agree in some parts of what you said, but once you passed for the that kind of moments you realize that you don´t need that kind of company anymore, that you can be happy by your own.

My reply to him

My wife was willing to go through attitute corrections and I was willing to guide her with knowledge, after about three years of marriage she was already kind of transformed totaly. We also have 4 years old child whom we together have to nurture, care and love for.
We together have gone through many things and have grown to maturity.

life is an adventure, life is not all about chassing after fun, happiness, success, fame and glory. Divinely it is also about going through what is tough and difficult with patience acquire as much knowledge, understanding and wisdom from the experiences and shine the light of inspiration and enlightment into the world so that souls might see the light and understand their own life path.

If i'm blessed to live long, after we are old I will tell my wife even though you are not young and attractive anymore but I still love you, not for what you have but for all that we had shared and gone through together in life, and you are still here with me.

Someone Said

I´ve been reading this topic for long time, because I met a girl with who I´ve been talking for nearly a year on msn. I had the idea to go to Finland, but she changed since we meet.

She, at first, wanted a serious relationship, but now she only wants friendship. She never said me "I don´t love you" or something like that, she talks often like "If you were here, things would be different".

She says that I should seek for other girl close to me, but she is sad when I don´t talk to her passed some days. I don´t know if she loves me, but she sees hard to be together due we live far away from each other; or she just wants to be friends only.

Another thing more is, she isn´t agressive or selfish with me (she was at first). She is very sweet now and tells me things very personal about her.

I need help with this: Should I try to go for her? Is she playing with me? I love her so much and I think that she feels the same. We had bad times but we always returned to talk again.

I´m spanish, by the way.

 My reply to him

1. She never said to me "I don´t love you"
   
   This means that she is not sure, she is kind of like confuse, she don't know whether what she is feeling about you is love or just the love of freindship.
   You have to understand that for any girls making marriage commitment is not easy, that does not mean they are unstable but just being cautious about their decision. They think alot from many aspects and angles and this is how women's brain works.
   
   2. She talks often like "If you were here, things would be different".
   
   This means that she knows deep within her that you are someone speacial for her, that you can make a difference in her life and in the relationship between you two.
   
   3. She says that I should seek for other girl close to me.
   
   This means that she is feeling hard to connect to you mentaly because of the distance. Distance can make things very hard.
   
   Women always wants someone who can protect her, look after her and someone who can meet her emotional needs, by having someone to give all this she would experience the feeling that she is cared and loved. All these very difficult to be done when distance sets you apart.
   
   4. She is very sweet now and tells me things very personal about her.
   
   This means that she feels comfortable with you and she trusts you which is a very good sign for serious relationship.
   
   5. We had bad times but we always returned to talk again.
   
   It's very normal in relationship, even in marriage this is how it is, things won't be always smooth, talking together and solving matters is essential, this will keep you together.
   
   6.How I could make a girl open her eyes?
   
   Showing love is the key to open a girls eyes and heart. what you have to do is to make her to feel your presence even though you are not there with her.
   
   Don't phone her oftenly maybe that can annoy her but instead send her cards, poems, letters and gifts whennever she sees these things that you have sent to her they will make her to feel your presence with her.
   Whennever she sees them she will think and realise how much you love her, cares for her and need her.

A Woman replied

Well, I'd rather stick to the animal style life in western country than be saved by the likes of you wnd that other guy from Malaysia.

Who the heck are you to start transforming any people so that they suit YOU?.
I would go mad if some Asian guy started his preaching on me and expected me to behave according to his culture rules. You don't like western women - there is plenty of the flat faced ones in Asia. Go and save them.

My reply to her 

No asians are really trying to transform this world to suit them.
I personally believe that the westerners are the ones trying hard to transform the world to suit them with all sorts of propaganda.

Many asians are nowadays influenced by western idealogies as well, it's an unfortunate.

You don't have to be any heck to transform the world, what you need is a good heart and a right brain to understand the sickness in the society and the willingness to heal the people with character sickness for the betterment of the world family and for creating a better future and world for our children.

What the way of living of the westerners have really given to them, nothing but unstable life, living in lies, high rate of divorce and children becoming the victims, high rate of suicide, selfishness, me first idealogy, mental disorders, alchoholics, drug addicts and so on.......

My wife is a westerner (finnish woman) been married for 8 years, even she doesn't like western so called culture, already before we met but even more after knowing the beauty of better philosophy of the east.

It doesn't matter whether flat faced ones in Asia or cone faced western ones, anyway not all asians are flat faced ha! ha! well the important matter is anyone with sickness needs a healer.

The same woman replied

you sound juct like this xyz, twacle or whatever other nick he uses.

Western culture suits me and millions of western people quite well. No need to save us.

You remind me with this preaching and "how superior we are" propaganda, the Finnish sing song "we are best in this and that".

You like the peaceful corrupted hierarchy of Asian lives, fantastic - enjoy that. But I am not sure how long your Finnish wife will be able to stay there before she misses the culture she was raised in.

My reply to her

Well, my wife said she is not going to miss anything from the so called finnish culture which is full of:-
unstable life, living in lies, high rate of divorce and children becoming the victims, high rate of suicide, selfishness, me first idealogy, mental disorders, alchoholics, drug addicts and so on.......

She is happy that her eyes were opened to see the reality. Happy to have more stable and meaningful life.

Well, I believe that you are just trapped in your finnish idealogies, even though deep within your conscious
you know what is right and wrong, I believe that you don't know the way out from your societies idealogies, many finnish women are poor victims of corrupted philosophies with which they are brainwashed.

Even though they know deep within they are wrong they cannot escape, they are weaken by self deceiving desires and idealogies.

Only the strong finnish women can break off the chain of self deceiving idealogy and experience the better life.
For the week finnish women it's a disaster.

I'm not trying to change you, but i believe you are a poor victim.

She replied to me

Just to make things clear: I am not Finnish and never liked the Finnish feminism and women's behaviour here. Which does not mean I would love to be treated as a mental patient by some guy from other continent either.

I am European and proud of all the culture inheritance I can benefit from. One of them, women's right to choose their living style. Not so popular in Asia I am afraid.

I can identify myself with a flower, but a live one. In Asia woman is more like a plastic plant ornament put into vase and kept there for ages to decorate the house, not asked what she really wants from her life.

Life of a geisha is not a very appealing to me, no way.

My relply

I would like to clarify that what I have said so far is based upon the life philosophies of the majority of eastern peoples' cultures, not all, in asia there are also people with all sorts of mentality.

I'm an Indian from Malaysia, women in Malaysia have a lot of freedom, highly educated and successful, but they don't behave like the women here in Finland.

For them freedom means to do things which will lead them to prosperity, goodness and happiness for them, for their families, children and for their country.

For them freedom does not mean to be selfish or to be slaves and victims of self destructive desires which lead to destruction.

Unfortunately for many western women freedom means to become slaves to desires, they let their selfish desires to rule them and push them into the pit of disaster. They cause distruction not just for themselves but also for their families and country.

Is this what freedom is all about ? surely not.

So westerners have to get the deep knowledge and understanding what really means to be free.

Majority of eastern women have this deep knowledge and they are very happy with their way of freedom. They are truly free.

Depression is rare among majority of easterners.

Reports show that finnish women are highly depressed of live. This is because they don't understand the real meaning to be free.

No use if a flower is just beautiful and lively it should have pleasant scent as well so that the admirers will enjoy not only the looking but also the pleasant scent.

Majority of Eastern women are beautiful flowers with relaxing scent, life becomes beautiful when such flowers are at home.

She replied

Quite many of the free educated and flowery eastern women seek desparately an old stinking husband eg. in Finland. Can you explain why they run away from that fantastic life they have in Asia?

Please do not tell me how well educated women in Malaysia are - I just happened to meet few here and their IQ was somewhat...disaster. They know how to cook, raise kids and please their men but that's as far as it goes.

And personally, if I have a choice (and I do, which is a great thing, unknown to quite few of those eastern flowers) I would rather be a slave to my own desires than be a slave to a man's desires.

My reply

Not just in Malaysia but it's a matter of fact around the world that women become naturally attracted to older man, thats because many women wants some sort of establishment in life, old man are more established in every ways in life so woman around the world for whom established life is more important they eccept older man after all old or young love thats all matter.

They are pretty wise indeed. ha ha!

According to the statistics women are the majorities in most of the universities in Malaysia

Actualy I have meet many western man when they look for stable and spiritual life partner they go for eastern woman and many of them having really wonderful life.

I believe you haven't been to Malaysia, please visit Malaysia aleast once in your life time for eyes to be opened, Malaysians are much more successful than many western counries including Finland not just in infrastucture but also in mental, phisycal and spiritual espects. You have to go to Malaysia to see how successful women are in Malaysia in all this area and how happy they are. I personally feel poor for the tons of depressed western women here when i compare them with the women in Malaysia.

Me and my Finnish wife lived in Malaysia for 8 years after our marriage, we moved to Finland for a change last year, now my wife is saying all the time that she wants to go back to Malaysia seeing how backward Finland is in many many areas compare to Malaysia.
Economically,Mentaly,Spriritualy, socially, in education and even in cleaness.

Finnish people have to go out to see other countries, how better other countries are then Finland, not just be blinded by propagandas and  compare themself with some poor countries. Poor finnish.

By the way, people who are slaves to their own desires man or woman not better that the animals out there.

Ha ha! actualy we have a beliefe that people who are slaves to their own desires will born as an animal in the life to come, maybe a street one, (Karma).

She replied

Are you by any chance connected to Talibans? Next you will be telling us that the arrange marrieges between some old prick and young girl (often a child) is a blessing for her.

I do not need to travel all the way to Malaysia or many of those backward countries. Enough if I read eg this: http://www.wao.org.my/news/20010301statusreport.htm

Must have been written by Malaysian feminists. What you do to them? Burn like witch.

My reply

Well, I'm not a taliban, I beliefe in Judaism.

About the marriage between young and the old what I was trying to say is that if you have reached suffrage you are a major not a minor what does it matter? You have the right to mary who you want to.

Doesn't matter whether older, younger, thin, fat, tall, short, black, pink or brown. love is what matters, two hearts join to gether for better or worse. This is freedom, malaysia women have it.
What you are talking is totally opposite of freedom.

Everyone is going to be old one day, don't look down upon old people. It's a shame that this is a culture that don't even respect old people and call it self developed, in what developed?

It's also shame that some western countries call themself developed country when it's full of nothing but dirty cities, unstable life, high rate of divorce and children becoming the victims, high rate of suicide, selfishness, me first idealogy, mental disorders, alchoholics, drug addicts, and so on....

Thanks for the link, as you can read yourself how much Malaysian goverment has commited to improve womens status.

Malaysia it's country that has grown rich because of it's oil and gas ( petroleum ) production. I think I don't have talk much about this, everyone knows how countries with oil become rich.

no one have to be slaves of another person what i'm saying is that man and woman have to understand their role in this world as a man as a woman there is nothing less noble if a woman cook and raise kids, even the nature have chosen women to bear children.
It's a shame even to think that the speacial ability which has been given to women to bear kids as something low. I think it's a blessing that men were not blessed with.

Everything needs balance in the nature. Humans are part of the nature there should balance and order in human life, without, life would become a messed up life, like many western women's life.

Majority of eastern women knows their role as a women as a wife and a mother and they do it well that is why many western men are flooding to eastern countries to get a noble character wife for life long union.
The western ones only for "taste, chew and spit". unfortunate indeed.

Your ignorence reminds me of the story of a blind man who went to zoo to get to know an elephant, he touched the tail only and thought that elephant is all tail. Funny right.

I laugh to death reading your replies.
they are like an empty tin which makes to much noise.

get some insights.

She replied

Oh, I know you don't like when a woman has own opinions and dares to state them. But this is not Malaysia, this is western country. So get used to that noise.

I don't look down at old people. But I do look very much down at arranged marriages between old men in eg. late 60-s and girls of 15 years old. That is purely sick and fortunately forbidden in western countries.

The goverment of Malaysia (according to this women's organisation) has been TRYING to improve the status of women in Malaysia from their zero level to a bit higher. Still results don't satisfy the ladies of this posted link.
But perhaps in 20 years time some of the well educated women in your society will be eventually allowed to work professionally for a proper salary and use their education to develop further, not simply sit at home raising bunches of kids.
But do you know what will happen then when women get this chance? They won't depend anymore in a financial way on their male masters and owners and might choose an independence over slavery at home. As you see from that link, they already realize that there is something wrong with the current state.

Giving birth to a child is woman's task and priviledge but raising one and taking care of that child is a duty of both parents:woman and man. How does it work in your society? Equal rights and equal tasks?

Malaysia is rich as far as a small group of rulling people are concerned. How about the rest? The poor? Anyone taking care of them?

Do you know what majority of western men do when they flood your and neighbouring countries? They rarely end up marrying anyone there. But thousands of them enjoy extremely cheap sex with extremely young girls. This is how your morals work.

I bless the day I was born far far away from such a culture where woman'r role is limited to be only a cook, a cleaner, a child minder and a sex toy.
Please keep that amazing life to yourself, I prefer the stinky western culture.

My reply

Well I have no problem in woman having their own opinion, I don't know from where you get this idea ha! ha! ha! you are sharing yours I'm sharing mine, I think you don't like man having their own opinion.

We easterners are well acquainted with noise long before western people. We have and had all sorts of women philosophers of course not an empty tin which makes to much senseless noise.

Long before westerners got out of forest from their collecting and moving life style the eastern ancient civilizations already well advance in science, technology, medicine, tons of literature and so on.

Easterners thought the westerners how to be civilize. Before the light of the east (Christianity, Hinduism, Buddhism) and so on came to Europe, Europe was in barbarous darkness.

We thought you how to be humans. Go back to your history books.

Finnish first literature was Mikael Agricola's (1508- 1557), who in 1551 published a translation of the Psalms of David. This actually not even Finnish it's from the Middle Eastern from Judaism.

Easterner have thousands of year of own literature own form of writing system and so on .

Why you are talking about arranged marriage?
I was only talking about two hearts joined together in love.

Well I’m not from a ruling class I have a better life style than most of the Finnish people here, saying only the ruling class enjoy the prosperity is a merely fact less story from someone who haven't even ones been in Malaysia, and from someone who even afraid to visit because the truth will be overwhelming.

In Malaysia we have the (JKM) which is equivalent to (Kela, Social Care) and many NGO's just like here in Finland.

In Finland I have to live in a tiny house, because the big ones are only for the super rich who can afford to pay the tons of Finnish tax.

Maybe some western man goes to some Asian countries to get cheap sex from some poor Asian girls who fall for their money.

But in western countries you don't even have to pay it's free because most of the women are slaves of sex. I have heard some foreign man saying that they are living in Finland because of the free sex they can get here.
Did you read from Helsinki Sanomat how easy it is to get sex from underage girl here in Finland. It's too easy, what a disgraceful. It's so called western culture with no self honor.

Taking care of kids indeed task of both father and mother, many women are well educated and work before marriage but after most of them uses their knowledge to raise and bring kids for the prosperity of our country. Many of them became full time professional mothers. A research done in UK shows that children who are looked after by their own mother and close family are much stable mentally and happier than the poor kids who chucked in to the day care centers.

We know these decades before the western research found it.
For us we take serious about raising up kids the responsibility to raise kids to become people full of knowledge, wisdom, understanding, spiritual and full of self honor.

In Malaysia tax is very low one of the lowest in the world. So many women don't have to make extra money to support the family like the poor Finnish here. The money that the responsible fathers makes for the family is enough. Educated people in Malaysia gets much more salary that educated Finnish here. Malaysian pays little tax that is the life standard. Good salary low tax.

I'm a Malaysian, I'm a father I help my wife in many different ways for example when i'm free from work I spend quality time with my son we have a lots fun together, talking, playing, giving word of advice and guidance and so on, I also help my wife in cooking and cleaning and so on. Family for us is an institution to learn how to be a person of high value and love. Not to became psychotic like in selfish Finnish life style.

Man and woman we work together by knowing and understanding our rolls. For us family is holistic no place for selfish ideology. Unless some weak easterners became influenced by western weak ideologies.

Again what I'm saying based upon the eastern life philosophy of the majorities not all.

Don't make noise again about some stories of Asian countries where weak people are influenced by western weak ideologies.

Anyway it’s really good sharing with you my opinions because I’m getting numerous e-mails from some wise western women saying that they benefit a lot from my point of view and they get an idea how to improve their life.

You can ask me more question I think at least many others are making use of this wisely.

She replied

Listen Mt Hari Krishna, Taliban or Patel.

You hate so much western culture and everything it means, why on Earth you don't pack your luggage and start your bare foot journey back to paradise in Malaysia?

Or perhaps your Finnish wife has had slightly enough of this balanced life as a professional mother (that's a good one:))) or professional hoover operator and started to miss being among those uncivilizes barbarous free women? And now you are stuck in this feminized world, where woman can tell you to get lost if she wishes to. What a hell:))

I would die within one year being married to a preaching *** like you.
Quality time with my son, while my wife is sweping the floors.That is great sharing of tasks:) Poor girls earning money by becoming prostitutes:) Man you think someone belives this crap you write here?

My reply

First of all don't try to twist my words, say as it is.

What do mean by Poor girls earning money by becoming prostitutes? I did not say anything like that, just don't try to manipulate.

What I said was in Finland men can get sex even for free because many women here are slaves to sex.

I also have heard some foreign man saying that they are living in Finland because of the free sex they can get here

Check this link Helsinki Sanomat reports that girls in Helsinki sell sex for Jeans,
other clothing, music recordings, alcohol or drugs.

http://www.hs.fi/english/article/Adult+men+in+Helsinki+caught+paying+for+sex+with+teenagers+with+alcohol+and+gifts/1135234514777
( if the link doesn’t work on click copy and paste in the browser)

Well I’m still here in Finland because I believe just like Jesus said not the healthy needs doctor but the sick.

I don't hate Finnish people or any western peolpe, I beliefe we all are one big world family, but I don't like the so called western culture, even my Finnish wife hates.

Finland has been an isolated country for years. They only knew what they had here and their way of living. Finnish had phobia of foreigners but now starting to know and trust. Finland is a little open to foreigners than before, I believe many Finnish can already see what the foreigners can offer and that Finland needs the foreigners.
Nokia the most successful company in Finland occupied mostly by foreign experts.

I belief slowly the foreigners will also change the mind set of the Finnish to a better frequency ha! ha!.

My wife she also have this eagerness to guide the misleaded Finnish women to the right path.So they can also taste the real meaning of free and happiness.

I'm not stuck here not at all, I'm not a weak Finnish man to feel that.

Please understand no offence intended to Finnish men but personaly I do beliefe that Finnish men are little weak in character then woman here. 

Me and my enlighten Finnish wife maybe just have a mission to accomplish here and I believe it's already happening many women are already getting enlighten by this conversation.

Are you jealous that I can have quality time with my son? don’t you have one?
And what's wrong in it, I'm working my wife spends most of the time with my son so when I'm free I spend quality time with my son and also help my wife in many ways, are blind to see and read about the part how I help my wife? What family is all about for us?

Don't be jealous and there is nothing to be shameful to realise your mistakes and correct them to experience a better life.

I think you are trapped, you just can't get out of feminist ideology and you are jealous of women who are having good life with their husband. Because you can't make one with your feminist theories.

Some words for the mind think "dogs don't know what is precious and pigs don't value diamonds"

I wrote to her again

Anyway what is there to do with this conversation and what you have said here?( professional hoover operator)
Are you a hoover operator?

This is not a femenized world, man does this all the time in this culture to women: man eat ,chew and then spit finnish women out because they are done. This is the value of women here, nothing precious. They are just some kind of toy or pet for man.

This happened because the prostitute kind of image of women here. If women project themself as a spiritual being surely things would be better. But here woman project themself like wild dogs.

Are you one of those pet or toy ?
Are you spitted out and angry now ?

Because you sound like one.

Try to calm youself with some portions made out of Finnish feminist ideology.
Maybe soon you can also rest in depression in the mental hospital just like many of them here :))))).

That if you get there soon enough.
It's not easy to get doctors time here because Finland is that developed.

Some Finnish people who flew to Malaysia with our 5 star Malaysian airline became blinded by the shine that eminated from our well polished marbel floor :)))

Because their eyes are used to Rautatientori floor "cleaness".

If you want to talk like this I can also but it's no use.
Get to the points immature girl not just bla bla bla!

And read first properly my posts and try to digest to get the benefits don't just take few sentences and talk crab to me.

She stop replying